Diyisfun said:
Softus said:
How about publishing all of the unwritten rules that the moderators enforce?
LOL
There might well be chuckles at the suggestion, but if you think I was joking then you're wrong.
Richard said:
...hows about a countdown forum for unanswered posts, just to remind us to have a rethink about it? maybe after a week or two a red flashing symbol saying ''unresolved''
jonnyfishing said:
I agree with Richardp, it is bad manners to not answer people who are trying to help solve a problem. Also for others trying to learn from the posts.
The behavior of some OPs is just a symptom of the entropic nature of the cyber-universe - in the same way that TCP sessions are short-lived, the connections between OPs and helpers is tenuous, and often non-existent. The world we live in is increasingly less caring, and expecting manners from every OP is like expecting more than 0.1% of BMW drivers to be courteous.
And if you don't get a taste of the sour, the sweet isn't as good.
Notwithstanding that, I think it would be a good thing if the notice issued when creating a new topic (or, if it's the same notice, then the one issued when you make any post) included a reminder to the poster to have the good grace to thank people when the problem is finally resolved.
Perhaps being unable to post another in the same forum until you acknowledge your last post is complete.
I think this is impractical, and I would vote against this on the grounds of the extra software complexity and propensity for it to go wrong. And we'd need a whole forum for people to ask the question "Why can't I post a new question?"
You might think my underlying suggestion of moderating the moderators is impractical, but, and if you could ignore my blatant hypocrisy for a moment, I think it's the pinnacle of bad manners to delete,
on an individual whim, and without a shred of explanation, a topic that is considered to contain more than an acceptable proportion of bad mouthing, with the result that all of the bystanding good advice is vaporised without trace.
Leaving aside the issue of manners, it wouldn't be going too far to say that the actions I see regularly perpetrated, silently, and without accountability, are crimes that act to repudiate the very constitution of the site.