NO!!! THRICE NO!!!
The VR10 is INSTEAD of the cylinder stat, not in addition!
Err, no. See above. The VR10 and associated electronics control the cylinder temperature. The thermostat and high limit stat are still needed on an unvented cylinder, but are set 'out of the way' at a high temperature and so never need to operate under normal circumstances.
Boiler controls are done in a similar way. You can control a boiler with a BMS system or similar electronic controller, which monitors the temperatures with NTC thermistor sensors. However, you'd never disable the control and HL thermostats unless you were seriously stupid.
Stick to the good old S-plan and Y-plan, Corgiman. You'll go far.
It's a 3 month old resurrection of an ancient thread. I doubt anyone will be reading it now.