sounds like a lot of the confusions is being caused by poor translation of the user manuals.
Exocet - im sure you had your reasons but i am curious as to why you did not just wall mount the VRC430 instead of fitting a VR81?
Purely for aesthetics. The VR81 is about the size of a standard Room Stat, the 430 is just too big, ugly and confusing to use. In theory at least the VR81 will allow my wife to turn the temperature up, she'd never be able to drive the 430.
Exocet
To begin with (largely because of curious instructions I think) it is easy to be frightened off the VRC430. This is especially true off the inconsistent wording in translation, quite apart from the opaque "meanings " and "descriptions" of functions, but actually this is really only really bad and difficult on the installer or technical settings side of things.
At the up-front "user level" I quite soon found it very clear and helpful! Where else do you get a nice single screen setting out time/ temp periods for a whole day or even week adjustable at touch of button?. I like it now and can race through it with ease, even right through to the "A" level screens, checking things as one goes, and contemplating. It even gives you time to think with each screen before dimming out, and it still holds its place for a while.
Much quicker and neater than operating sequential single button pushes on other programmers for each single item set , (sometimes multiple careful button presses as you approach a desired temp or time), around in general. IMHO !
While quite big, and you clearly don't really like the lovely blue screens and aesthetics [you got to admit you can see them easily] I am now a convert.
Let the wife have a shot at user level, (if you give her control rights on such vital matters!)
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