The answer is this: No.The question is this: When the particles have all gone and the closed system contains pure energy, do the apples still fall towards it?
I think there is lots of proof.I don't think there is any proof that inertia and gravity really have the same origin, ie mass.
In that case you must have redefined the meaning of the word "proof".It is assumed that they do because all our experiments point that way but that's not proof.