Hi,
thx for all the replies, I've been off sick past few days, I've made myself sick with morning till night trying to research on all aspects of home security, plus being the festive season, very difficult for anyone to come out do quotes/work.
just to answer a few points that were asked.
The robbery was very much planned. They had studied our timings. They had been sent by someone specifically to target us. They had come specifically for cash and gold, they were not interested in electricals. We are far from rich just decent people who have worked really hard all our lives. I drive an 11year old. There are many more people who are far richer than us who have luxury cars on their drives quite open and visible.
We didn't have any cash at home, when they threatened my wife they would kidnap our 2yr old son, she showed them the gold that we had - which was our wedding gold, items going back generations. We have been living here for 23yrs without any such incident. Our buildings/contents insurance had also expired.
Our perimeter fencing is non-existant to the front though we do have conifer trees lining one side. We did have some conifers to the front - till some hodlum decided to set fire to it a few years back. We do have quite a long drive about 3 car lengths. Now thinking of either wood panel fencing or brick/iron railings along with a gate.
We will definitely be moving, but its going to take time to look for a house etc in the mean time need to make this one secure without it looking like a prison. Could go to extremes with iron railings outside windows/doors etc but not very aesthetic.
I've also been thinking of about some traps. We have a side gate that gives entrance to the side of the house. I'm thinking about installing 2 side gates quite tall say 7ft (with some anti-climb device), the first being open and when armed as the intruder passes the 1st gate and approaches the 2nd gate, some trigger would release the 1st gate and shut behind the intruder, trapping the bugger between the 2 gates, setting of alarms etc. Thus handing the villan on a plate to the police. This also has the benefit of keeping the family safe from the criminal and doesn't allow him to run free around the property and gives the added benefit of not having to confront and deal with him in a physical sense.