well I have had 3 people out to my boiler now.. long story.
turned water off and ch is on but thermo not calling for heat and boiler fires up and rads get hot. whenever water goes off rads go on regardless of ch setting on controller or thermo setting. now I've set ch and water to off on controller and boiler is still on and rads getting hot.
if I have water and ch set to on on controller (but water is hot) and call for heat on thermo then the 3 way valve just clicks.
turned water off and ch is on but thermo not calling for heat and boiler fires up and rads get hot. whenever water goes off rads go on regardless of ch setting on controller or thermo setting. now I've set ch and water to off on controller and boiler is still on and rads getting hot.
if I have water and ch set to on on controller (but water is hot) and call for heat on thermo then the 3 way valve just clicks.