Its a hard one.
I woulnt confront her just yet as what evidence have you actually got. Im very happy with someone but occasionally have a flirty text with an old mate of mine. Never kissed her or anything but used to joke saying we loved each other. If my missus ever read these texts on there own they would of looked very dodgy to her but it was all completely innocent.
If you confront her she will obvious deny it and if its sorted out will be even more careful not to get caught out. Then the onus is on you as you be be accused of not trusting her and she will be in control of the situation.
Her answer will be something like her mates brother/mate/cousin is a taxi driver and that why she has the number etc etc. and you will not have much to back up your end of the argument.
Again your text thingy is a good one if it works. If not the sim card.
Simply text him when your missus is busy pretending to be her saying you changed your number. Have some small talk and wait to see if he makes any suggestive comments at you. If so go along with it.
There is no way your missus can confront you as whats she going to say.
"Have you text this blokes number i have in my phone pretending to be me"
Even if she does you say "what you on about love"
Try to gain more info before confronting her as no matter how much you have she will deny it and throw all she can at you to turn the tables and make you feel that your in the wrong.
Good luck
I woulnt confront her just yet as what evidence have you actually got. Im very happy with someone but occasionally have a flirty text with an old mate of mine. Never kissed her or anything but used to joke saying we loved each other. If my missus ever read these texts on there own they would of looked very dodgy to her but it was all completely innocent.
If you confront her she will obvious deny it and if its sorted out will be even more careful not to get caught out. Then the onus is on you as you be be accused of not trusting her and she will be in control of the situation.
Her answer will be something like her mates brother/mate/cousin is a taxi driver and that why she has the number etc etc. and you will not have much to back up your end of the argument.
Again your text thingy is a good one if it works. If not the sim card.
Simply text him when your missus is busy pretending to be her saying you changed your number. Have some small talk and wait to see if he makes any suggestive comments at you. If so go along with it.
There is no way your missus can confront you as whats she going to say.
"Have you text this blokes number i have in my phone pretending to be me"
Even if she does you say "what you on about love"
Try to gain more info before confronting her as no matter how much you have she will deny it and throw all she can at you to turn the tables and make you feel that your in the wrong.
Good luck