Wimmin

[notb665]

Women and men have different strengths, women are better at some things, and men are better at others.

It just so happens that women are better at nurturing, and creating a nice home. Thousands of years have shown this. Tradition is there for a reason.

So that is why they should stay at home and do cooking and cleaning and stuff. They are much better at it.

 

[Freddie]

Who let this prik out???

 

[Moz]

I must agree in point regarding the way the Family unit has broken down , both parents out working , kids with childminders , NO family values instilled now by Mother ...
I think if dad or mum is earning enough why do parents NOT want to stay at home with their brats ...

society nowadays its a commercilised /materialistic ....greedy thoughtless one like that Classic line out of "Trainspotters"
Choose life. Choose a job. Choose a starter home. Choose dental insurance, leisure wear and matching luggage. Choose your future. But why would anyone want to do a thing like that?

 

[petewood]

So that is why they should stay at home and do cooking and cleaning and stuff. They are much better at it.

Quite true, although they sometimes need reminding of the logic behind this, bless them.

 

[Mustapha]

Women and men have different strengths, women are better at some things, and men are better at others.

It just so happens that women are better at nurturing, and creating a nice home. Thousands of years have shown this. Tradition is there for a reason.

So that is why they should stay at home and do cooking and cleaning and stuff. They are much better at it.

It is so nice to see such enlightened people alive and well in this world we share, it is a shame the local education authority didn't spend some money on him!

 

[Thermo]

i have to say i understand where moz is coming from. weve made a choice that my wife wont go back to work after the birth of our child and will do some work at home doing bookeeping. its not all about money theres much more important things in life.

 

[notb665]

Admittedly most of the posts I post on here I may not necessarily agree with, I just like a massdebate.

However, I do agree with this one. There seems to be a bit of a stigma when it comes to looking after a home, but it's a job in itself! And a lot of them seem to like it, if they would just admit it: a load of my old female uni-mates say they want to have kids and stay at home.

When I've been out grafting all day, there is NOTHING better than coming home to a clean house and a good meal cooked by a beautiful woman.

 

[Freddie]

Admittedly most of the posts I post on here I may not necessarily agree with, I just like a massdebate.

Seems i was right first time then

 

[johnny_t]

I used to have a young guy working for me, and always remember him saying....

"It must be great being married - You get to have sex whenever you want"

Bless his little heart.......

 

[Mustapha]

Admittedly most of the posts I post on here I may not necessarily agree with, I just like a massdebate.

However, I do agree with this one. There seems to be a bit of a stigma when it comes to looking after a home, but it's a job in itself! And a lot of them seem to like it, if they would just admit it: a load of my old female uni-mates say they want to have kids and stay at home.

When I've been out grafting all day, there is NOTHING better than coming home to a clean house and a good meal cooked by a beautiful woman.

In my culture it is normal for the woman to stay at home, it is taken as red, however both my lovely wife and I work, although this was not always the case. We have two children, one of 16 and one of 10. The 16 year old is at home before my wife and I and ensures that the 10 years old is home and behaving himself before we get there at about 7pm usually.

In the early years my wife did not work, we both agreed that in the interests of our children it was important to have a parental figure in the home in their formative years, and as I was the highest earner it made perfect sense that my wife should be the one to stay at home. My wife returned to fulltime employment after the youngest was 7 years old and her sister was able to look after him before and after school.

This was the perfect solution for us, but obviously this will vary from family to family, however I do believe that a parental influence is critical in the first 5 to 8 years of a childs life. Most cultures dictate that it is the female, and this may be naturally the best, but if the female can earn more than the male, it would be logical that the male look after the child and the home whilst the female works.

 

[Freddie]

Mustapha you are down as being born and British, the culture you describe is not the British culture, you can not have it both ways you are either British or you arent.

When taking up residency you take up that culture and do not set yourself apart.

If you are born in a country and stay there you are of that culture not some other.

 

[Nige F]

Admittedly most of the posts I post on here I may not necessarily agree with, I just like a massdebate.

However, I do agree with this one. There seems to be a bit of a stigma do you mean smegma

 

[petewood]

Before I set up my own business a few years ago I was working all day and my wife worked most evenings. It's not much fun getting home at 7pm on a cold dark night to be met by your wife waiting for you on the doorstep because she's late for work, who hands you a small child who she informs you has just filled his nappy, and your tea is beans on toast and it's still in the cupboard! This is no word of exaggeration.

Thank god those days are gone.

 

[empip]

Isn't it a fact, some couples in pretty well paid jobs both work for the renumeration.
Other couples both work because perhaps summed together they just gross the 'national average ..£25k. or less.
Just look through the job adverts in local press .... Not many at that average pay.
All this must play a part in the debt culture we seem to live in.

Mustapha a gadget or three ...

 

[WoodYouLike]

When I've been out grafting all day, there is NOTHING better than coming home to a clean house and a good meal cooked by a beautiful woman.

Lazy pr***! ! !
My point of view: every couple should decide for themself, not being dictated by this 'society' (ruled by men )
So you think housework is rewarding in it self? I don't, working is rewarding for me. Housework is a rewarding task for my hubby (who, to be honest, is much better at it than me )
Women didn't fight for nothing to get the right to be educated, I'm still very grateful they have won the fight. Everyone should be able to do what they are best at: I'm terrible with housework, I'm very good in my work.