Could you get your neighbour to agree to a shared foundation? That way, if the fence is removed and a wider than standard foundation is cast then when you do your build you havent got to dig a trench right next to his foundation. The problem with that is that his foundation, would for a while have an offset load, which the building inspector might not like.
If that is done, there would need to be reinforcing bars cast into the side of the foundation on your side, so when you do yours, the day joint will be locked together (in practice all that happens is that some short length of re bar are hammered into the soil your side.
regarding the specialist foundation you mention -yes you can do that, but eccentrically loaded foundations need structural calculations. In reality there are thousands of such foundations around -where the foundation hasnt been dug very accurately and the cavity wall ends up being close to the edge.
Its a shame your neighbours cant see sense, you are both loosing space and ending up with a more complicated construction for no gain. There are lots of occasions when party wall agreements are best avoided and in those cases building a separate wall makes sense. It sounds like you neighbour is making a decision based on concerns with party walls, but not based on the straighforward circumstances you both have.
In any case if he is going to build very close to the edge of the boundary, he is going to need his builders to work from your side ideally to avoid working overhand and will definitely need to work from your side to get the wall rendered. If he shared a wall it wouldnt need render, so he would save money....
If that is done, there would need to be reinforcing bars cast into the side of the foundation on your side, so when you do yours, the day joint will be locked together (in practice all that happens is that some short length of re bar are hammered into the soil your side.
regarding the specialist foundation you mention -yes you can do that, but eccentrically loaded foundations need structural calculations. In reality there are thousands of such foundations around -where the foundation hasnt been dug very accurately and the cavity wall ends up being close to the edge.
Its a shame your neighbours cant see sense, you are both loosing space and ending up with a more complicated construction for no gain. There are lots of occasions when party wall agreements are best avoided and in those cases building a separate wall makes sense. It sounds like you neighbour is making a decision based on concerns with party walls, but not based on the straighforward circumstances you both have.
In any case if he is going to build very close to the edge of the boundary, he is going to need his builders to work from your side ideally to avoid working overhand and will definitely need to work from your side to get the wall rendered. If he shared a wall it wouldnt need render, so he would save money....