As I said probably on page 1 or 2, you cannot have 3 pumps thrashing away and no circulation through the header, of course as everything is undersized, the 2 pumps could stall the header and even reverse the flow making the shunt pump pointless
The header is nothing but a glorified by-pass pipe, circulating in the wrong direction and against the shunt pump.
Correct, but then that's all a LLH is really - a glorified bypass pipe. If you have more controlled environment then you might be able to work out some better variables, but for a domestic heating environment then you have a lot of compromises to work around.
If you increase primary flow rate so there is never any reverse flow in the "assembly" at peak demand (typically during start up on the CH) then you'll have a sub optimal setup for all other conditions. Worst case is you get some reverse flow and the CH flow temperature is reduced a bit while the CH loop is "starting up" - just like you get with a conventional system where the flow temp is reduced until the return temp to the boiler has come up a bit and allows the boiler to reach the set flow temp (unless of course, you are one of those who see nothing wrong with installing a grossly oversized boiler and not ranging it down to suit the load).
Personally, I'd rather optimise the system for the situation it'll run at most - which is when the CH is under part load. But if it makes you happy to optimise the system for less than 1% of it's operating time, and make it less optimal for when it's costing the most to run, then that's your choice - pity you professionals inflict such systems on unsuspecting customers.