Your cylinder is an old Yellow Foam one. Around 30 years I think. It has a smaller heat exchange coil inside than a modern cylinder so takes longer to heat up.
What is the power of your boiler?
Long ago I had a 15kW boiler, which was only just enough, and if you had a bath on a frosty night, you could feel the house cool down.
Installing CWI reduced the heat loss and removed that problem, but the new boiler is 24kW so is ample anyway.
I calculate heat loss for whole house at 0C outside and 20C inside as 12kW now I have CWI and thicker loft insulation. It uses more at first when it is heating from cold.
The modern (blue) cylinder heats in 30minutes.
As Terry says, if you can set your timer to heat the cylinder earlier or later than the CH start, it will reduce the simultaneous load.
Yes correct, I believe it is old and plan to upgrade it in the near future. (only been in the house just over a week).
The Boiler is a Glowworm Flexicom 18hx. So 18 Kw. The house has 14 rads in total.
Surely I should be able to have hot water and heating together though? so would rather get the issue resolved if I can, but may have to change the timer for now.
Many thanks