Ok link wire to blue wire on all the time,link wire to yellow wire
switch upstairs operates as it should off =off on=on & if you turn
the light on downstairs you can now turn it off upstairs & vice versa
the only thing is the downstairs light switch off=on on=off but I really
do not care about that tbh & the outside light still works.
You mean you have a light switch working upside down?
Just swap the L2 and L3 around.