I imagine that much the same for most of us over that period, although of all the things you mention, the 'voluntary' change to electric cooking is probably the one which has the greatest impact. On the other side of the equation, lighting often represented a significant proportion of the total 'back then', but has probably fallen to near insignificance in many homes these days.Back on topic, looking at my electricity consumption since I bought my first house in 1976 it has risen by a large amount. ... In 1976 I didn't have a freezer, washing machine, microwave or any boxes under the TV. The TV had an on off switch rather than a standby button. I didn't possess a computer like I am now typing on either. My cooker and oven was gas rather than the electric oven and induction hob I use now.
It might be more interesting to think about the changes since a slightly later date, by which time most people had freezers, washing machines, dryers, microwaves and maybe dishwashers, and ignoring those who voluntarily changed to or from electric cooking. From that point in time onwards, I doubt that there has been major change, maybe even a modest decrease, primarily because of the lighting. The graphs I presented above certainly seem to indicate an appreciable progressive reduction over the last 10 years (well, as far as the data goes - to 2012).
Kind Regards, John