Friendly advice?ok so obviously some friendly advice is not going to happen here just abuse.
If you mean encouragement for you to carry on fiddling with things you don't have a clue about, then you're right, you aren't going to get that.
Abuse?
If you mean people pointing put what an unbelievable idiot you have been by deciding to do electrical work so far beyond what you can currently cope with then you're right, you are going to get that.
FGS man - you do not have a clue, and you must not again lay hands on anything you have done so far. You have no idea how far from competent you are.
When you have, I'm sure we would all love to see your schedule of test results.thanks guys ill figure it out myself.