Well, a good first step is to get more relaxed about whether we are seen, or see ourselves, as 'racist'.So what do you want me & other people who aren’t racist to do?
History can’t be changed.
I know for myself for example, that I was brought up in a white racist culture, including family, school, education etc - it would be quite bizarre for me to claim that I wasn't racist.
...but that's not really the point. It's the present that needs to be changed.
The point is to get interested in, and appreciative of, the experience of those many people who's lives are currently being damaged by racism - here-and-now: daily, weekly monthly racism, today tomorrow (ie; not in the past).
Lots of ways to do this - read books, look at youtube videos, read articles written by a diverse range of writers...
Here are a couple for starters:
Webinars, podcasts and articles
Unsettling Whiteness https://soasradio.org/speech/episodes/studen-union-lecture-series-5-unsettling-whiteness
Resisting Racism in the Academy https://discoversociety.org/2019/07/03/resisting-racism-in-the-academy/
Whiteness, Intimacy and Everyday Antiracism. William R. Frey
https://medium.com/@williamrfrey/sswr2020-brief-brilliant-90067f8ad147
What’s Missing From “White Fragility” https://slate.com/human-interest/2019/09/white-fragility-robin-diangelo-workshop.html
RACE: What is White Supremacy in Education? https://theteacherist.com/2019/02/20/race-what-is-white-supremacy-2/
What does it mean to be white in a society that proclaims race meaningless? Robin DiAngelo
Why healing from internalised Whiteness is a missing link in White people’s anti-Racism work
https://everydayfeminism.com/webinar-replay-hiw/?mc_cid=261adfd5ad&mc_eid=b9a7ca3c5e
Pran Patel's Decolonise the Curriculum Ted Talk
Guide to Allyship: http://www.guidetoallyship.com/
So You Call Yourself an Ally: 10 Things All ‘Allies’ Need to Know: https://everydayfeminism.com/2013/11/things-allies-need-to-know/
Seeing White – explorations of White Supremacy 14 radio broadcasts
https://www.sceneonradio.org/episode-45-transformation-seeing-white-part-14/
Witnessing the wound 20 min video by Eugene Ellis, BAATN. https://vimeo.com/2621948
How I learned to stop worrying and love discussing Race (10 min TED talk)
Colonialism and the origins of skin bleaching https://wellcomecollection.org/articles/XIfdHRAAAKbQ_FWB
4 Ways White People Can Process Their Emotions Without Hijacking the Conversation on Racial Justice. Jennifer Loubriel https://thebodyisnotanapology.com/m...ir-emotions-without-bringing-the-white-tears/
Recent relevant books
Me and White Supremacy: Combat Racism, Change the World, and Become a Good Ancestor Layla F.Saad 2020
How to be an antiracist Ibram X. Kendi 2019
Dying of Whiteness Jonathan M. Metzl 2019
White Privilege Unmasked: how to be part of the solution Judy Ryde 2019
BRIT (ish): On Race, Identity and Belonging Afua Hirsch 2018
White Fragility: why it’s so hard for white people to talk about racism
Robin DiAngelo 2018
Natives: race and class in the ruins of empire Akala 2018
My Grandmother’s Hands: Racialized Trauma and the Pathways to Mending our Hearts and Bodies Resmaa Menakem 2017
Why I’m no longer talking to white people about race Reni Eddo Lodge 2017
The Isis Papers. The Keys to the Colors Dr. Frances Cress Welsing 1991
A collection of 25 essays examining the neuroses of White Supremacy