david said:
Softus said:
david and not julie said:
IT IS ESSENTIAL your solicitor does this and not you, the court will recognise and respect his view over yours. The landlord could throw your letter in the bin and deny all knowledge, whereas a court would believe your solicitor.
Do you realise that a court is duty bound to assume that the sender of a letter is telling the truth, unless there is evidence or an indication to the contrary? What grounds do you have for believing what you're writing here, let alone publishing it?
Ok, softus, without legal qualifications. You have commented and critised my advice...
What I did, above, was make a statement, that you have not contradicted, and ask you a question, that you have not yet answered. You may assume that I have no legal qualifications, but your manner of doing so is a woefully inadequate attempt to get me to reveal my qualifications - I don't rise to that kind of bait.
david said:
OK so far? we are now going back to a time 3 or 4 days previous when I asked the opinion of others on a Diy forum.
One poster was called D&J or is that David or is that Julie? or maybe just David and a little bit of Julie or even Julie on her own(even though she is no longer a member) anyway regardless of that. He/her/they/them said be very careful and see a solicitor who can document your concerns regarding these dangers. The solicitor notifies the landlord using an official solicitors letterhead.
No, frankly, I'm lost, and I have no problem admitting it. You seem to be referring to David in the third person, but I thought that you were David. I'm genuinely confused about who "you" is in the context of the above paragraph.
david said:
The other poster is called softus and says Nah you don't need to do that this is the law blah blah blah, Save the cost, write to the customer yourself etc, I know best you don't really need a solicitor.
I have not told TheWife what she doesn't need to do, nor have I used the words "bla bla bla", nor have I said that I know best, nor that she doesn't need a solicitor - on the contrary:
I never said that you were wrong to advise seeking legal representation. I sincerely hope that The Wife does that, because she'll then discover that you were stating opinion, not facts.
It's the easiest thing in the world to say "go and see a solicitor", and the next easiest thing is to attempt to predict the outcome of the legal battle. Where my approach differs from yours is to state facts, gleaned from first-hand experience and from reading statutes and law reports, and to refrain from giving my opinion, except where I explicitly say "in my opinion".
It bemuses me that you, amongst others, get so het up when I ask you to state the basis of your advice, which I frequently do when, in my opinion, I think the advice has no factual basis. If your advice is so valuable, then what exactly is the problem in justifying it?
david and julie said:
So now "The Wife" its make your mind up time. Do you take the advice, or opinion, of someone who is trying to help you and is offering 20 years + experience of working for themselves or do you take the advice of an unqualified barrackroom lawyer?
You're the only person who is calling me a lawyer; why you do that is unknown. You have no idea whether or not my business experience exceeds yours. The forum is here for us all to air our opinions, and I believe my statements bear up to any scrutiny that challenges both their coherence and their common sense.
david and julie said:
The Wife, I apologise, but you have stumbled into grudges which have nothing to do with you and unfortunately discredit this site, which is a shame.
Interestingly, TheWife saw fit to thank me for what she felt was reassuring news; a reassurance that she apparently had not felt when reading your earlier posts. It's pretty plain that you're the person bearing the grudge, and any casual observer will know that this isn't the first time you've got worked up and issued quite personal comments, apparently arising from a quite simple form of envy.