I have not read the entire thread, but simply looking at the photo, and the tape markings....
Try just swapping the one with the white tape, furthest from the camera, with the unmarked red wire, from the same switch. That should leave you with the two with white tape, adjacent to each, at the two terminals nearest the camera.
Try just swapping the one with the white tape, furthest from the camera, with the unmarked red wire, from the same switch. That should leave you with the two with white tape, adjacent to each, at the two terminals nearest the camera.