I called around a local long established company that came recommended. He has had a look around and said he needs to do some calcs to see what he would recommend. He was also talking about perhaps two Mega Flows, a large one and a small one
Interesting, dunno why !
Perhaps he's still thinking slow reheat via coil - and that means you need a small one for fast reheat plus a bigger one for capacity.
He also mentioned that he felt something was not working properly in the current set up and thought it might be the blending valve that was faulty. So he suggested I try replacing that in case that resolves my biggest issue (ie can't get hot water out of two outlets at the same time.
Did you ever try the suggested test - see if the pipe coming out of the store (ie between the store and blending valve) stays hot when using two outlets ?
He also mentioned, as one of the suggested items should i decide to rip it all out and start again, to install some kind of Grundfos pump that boosts mains pressure. Is this a good idea?
No idea, as per earlier postings, you need to determine what your pressure/flow capacity is from the supply.
It should be fairly obvious that the available pressure will drop as you draw off flow - due to the flow resistance in the pipes and fittings. If (and only if) you can get plenty of flow, but not at good pressure, then a booster pump would help. If you can't get enough flow (even out of an open ended pipe with effectively zero pressure) then a booster pump won't help all that much.
You need to
measure your supply capability. Only then can you make informed decisions.