Sorry Freddie - I'm in the camp that thinks its an overrated pastime!
On another note - a male friend of ours recently told us that he's a 'swinger'
He goes round to other 'swingers' houses and does the business with their wives - while the husbands videos/takes pictures of the 'activity'.
Dave and I were totally gobsmacked! - I know it goes on as I drop some condoms off at 2 'swinging' clubs in Manchester - but I didn't
personally know anyone who actually did it!!!