Well to get back on topic, if my 11 year old daughter became pregnant and decided to not only go to term but was happy to bring up a new person I would support her wholeheartedly. And I don't see how she could be accused of ruining her life. Nature obviously deems this girl ready for motherhood, and I suspect she'll have a far more rewarding life than someone who opted for some crummy job like emptying specialist bins of canine excrement. For example.
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Surely plenty time for motherhood later on and just enjoy the childhood for now. I would like to think every parents do help their children whatever the situation. As we all know they're bad parents out therekeyplayer said:
'fraid alcohol and drugs got a lot to answer for and it's ruining childrens life
I feel there should be alcohol, drugs & sex education lesson at school unless it's happening now?
I just hoped the 11yrs girl wasn't raped because of the drinks.
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oilman said:paulbrown said:
Well considered and thought through, .................NOT!! I am not surprised you have changed occupations.
Thank goodness there are some people like Brightness about
Oilman you must have me confused with someone else.
I have not changed occupations and don't actually recall ever saying what I do for a living.
Perhaps you could be good enough to say what I do for a living?
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Quite frankly the only reason why an 11 yr old would be wanting a baby is because she's not getting the love, affection and attention she should be getting from home.
I've seen loads of young girls who say they want a baby........what it's really about is having something to love and to be loved - they have no real comprehension of the issues involved in bringing up a baby, how could they they are children themselves?........kids having kids! .......they soon get fed up, when they see their pals having a good time.......then they leave their babies unattended or start slapping their babies about 'cos they see it as a hinderance and can't cope........babies then end up in care with the same issues as what their mothers had ie wanting a baby...blah, blah - the never ending perpetual cycle
I've seen loads of young girls who say they want a baby........what it's really about is having something to love and to be loved - they have no real comprehension of the issues involved in bringing up a baby, how could they they are children themselves?........kids having kids!
.......they soon get fed up, when they see their pals having a good time.......then they leave their babies unattended or start slapping their babies about 'cos they see it as a hinderance and can't cope........babies then end up in care with the same issues as what their mothers had ie wanting a baby...blah, blah - the never ending perpetual cycleOh ffs Joe. Here we go again.....
Julie is right, these kids don't get the love at home - as I have already posted...
Joe, not everything is about sex and enjoyment of it (or not, as the case may be) some kids are just crying out to be loved.
I know a girl who is now aged about 19. She would have sex with any boy who asked her from the age of about 12 or 13 - it wasn't about the sex, it was about the feeling of 'love' or being close to someone. Something she never experienced at home
I truly believe that parents should be forced to undergo tests of some sort before they are allowed to have kids. Bet we wouldn't have half the problem of kids getting pregnant then - their parents wouldn't have been allowed to have them!
Julie is right, these kids don't get the love at home - as I have already posted...
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Joe, not everything is about sex and enjoyment of it (or not, as the case may be) some kids are just crying out to be loved.
I know a girl who is now aged about 19. She would have sex with any boy who asked her from the age of about 12 or 13 - it wasn't about the sex, it was about the feeling of 'love' or being close to someone. Something she never experienced at home
I truly believe that parents should be forced to undergo tests of some sort before they are allowed to have kids. Bet we wouldn't have half the problem of kids getting pregnant then - their parents wouldn't have been allowed to have them!
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JulieL/B said:joe-90 said:
Well what can we expect from silly li'l Joey.......I have alerted mods about this as it is totally inappropriate
What up li'l Joey? Losing the plot again?
Yes, Julie. Your personal abuse IS totally inappropriate.
It is pretty clear from your hostile remarks.
joe-90 said:JulieL/B said:joe-90 said:
Well what can we expect from silly li'l Joey.......I have alerted mods about this as it is totally inappropriate
What up li'l Joey? Losing the plot again?
Yes, Julie. Your personal abuse IS totally inappropriate.
You don't much care for sex do you? It is pretty clear from your hostile remarks.
Oohhh - you must be getting rattled
Bring it on......li'l fella.........bring it on!!!
JulieL/B said:
Don't see how you work that one out. I think Joe's right. She may love sex. She may not have wanted to get pregnant but having done so it becomes a totally different issue - one which involves the decision whether to go to term or not. Do you know this girl and her domestic arrangments?
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JulieL/B said:joe-90 said:JulieL/B said:joe-90 said:
Well what can we expect from silly li'l Joey.......I have alerted mods about this as it is totally inappropriate
What up li'l Joey? Losing the plot again?
Yes, Julie. Your personal abuse IS totally inappropriate.
You don't much care for sex do you? It is pretty clear from your hostile remarks.
Oohhh - you must be getting rattled
Bring it on......li'l fella.........bring it on!!!
Julie. Anyone looking at your recent posts will you that you are trying to bluster your way out of this. It won't work. Just cut the silly emoticons for the sake of users with 56K dial-ups.
And what's all the 'lil' fella' stuff? I guess to mock your patients thus?
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joe-90 said:
Is there any need for that Joe? That is the most pathetic thing I've read since your previous comments
What has Julie's sex life got to do with an 11 year old girl getting pregnant?keyplayer said:
Actually keyplayer, the 'mother' was on tv the other night and the baby was conceived on a one night stand as the child thought, as many of that age do (again down to lack of or poor sex education) that you couldn't get pregnant the first time you have sex
Brightness said:joe-90 said:
Is there any need for that Joe? That is the most pathetic thing I've read since your previous comments
keyplayer said:
Actually keyplayer, the 'mother' was on tv the other night and the baby was conceived on a one night stand as the child thought, as many of that age do (again down to lack of or poor sex education) that you couldn't get pregnant the first time you have sex
So nothing to do with a lack of love and affection at home then??
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