johnb80 said:
johnny_t said:
Can I just pose a hypothetical question.
Imagine you are walking past someone's house and see that the front door has been left open, and it looks to have been done inadvertently. Say you go and knock to let them know and get no response. What if you step inside to check that some old person hasn't fallen or something. None of this is completely inconceivable.
Now imagine that some mentalist that has spent too much time reading their back-issues of 'soldier of fortune' magazine is laying in wait waiting to put one of their wet dreams into action.
Who do you say is in the wrong ??
Lets try another one, 02:00 you hear noises but you think no problem it will be a nice local youth thats closing my front door that I stupidly left open. Then you hear screams coming from your 12 year old daughters bedroom but think she's just having a bad dream, never mind. You hear more noises downstairs but think that the nice person that came to close your door has realised you havent dusted in a while so he's very kindly dusting your furniture for you. Next, your bedroom door opens and you find the same kind person has entered your bedroom, he notices you havent shaved in a while and assists you by shaving you with a stanley knife which has unfortunately just slipped. He then looks at your wife and she has obviously not had sex for a while so he helps you out there as well.
Now, it's the next morning and you know you've a complete and utter b****y fairy doo gooder. Your daughter and wife have had traumatic experiences that will scar them for life, you've got your face mutilated and all the valuables in your house have gone. Your house is well and truly wrecked.
My way, the git the broke in will be in hospital battered and bruised and my wife, daughter, me and my home will all be in tact.
Are you REALLY sure you've got it right?
Regards - J
To be honest, your question is so daft that I find it hard to answer, but if you are interested in some real world solutions to some real life problems, here are a couple.....
Once, when I was away, my wife was at home when someone tried to break in through the back bathroom window. She went and knocked on the back window and they ran away. In my opinion this was a better solution to her letting them break in and then her trying to stab them with a breadknife.
A scenario similar to the first 8 words of your post, before it went downhill. Noises in the middle of the night. I got up, flushed the toilet, and by the time I went downstairs they had done a runner. I was perfectly happy with this outcome.
Finally, someone put a match through our letterbox. I ran after and caught the boy who did it, gave him a stern talking to (he was only about nine). An hour later, he came back to apologise to my wife for any upset caused.
The trouble with the sort of macho posturing you suggest is that most people will find the weapon or violence turned on themselves. And then they won't be feeling so smart.