Sex With Strangers
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I have 2 sons aged 9 and 11. They both know how sex works from talking to kids at school. The elder one has had a 'sexual awareness' lesson from a specialist teacher (we had to give our permission for this). They both know what 'gay' means, I do not know whether the know what gays do in the bedroom, but if they asked me I would tell them, in broad terms, as I would tell them anything they ask me about sex in general.
I would not show them a porn film but I don't think I have seen anything on telly that I would not let them watch (we do not have sky so I can't speak for that). If they saw 2 women simulating sex with dildos and they asked me why, I would tell them, and I can guarantee they would not really give it another thought as it does not really apply to them at this age.
Sex is a fact of life and I don't know why we should hide it from our kids. I'm sure that the mystery we surround it with makes them even more eager to find out about it, children are very inquisitive by nature.
I think that being coy about sex and trying to pretend that it doesn't happen cheapens the whole issue and distorts a childs view of life, not to mention possibly causing issues for them later on, including (from what I have read), extreme sexual shyness and unplanned pregnancy.
I don't know whether this repressive attitude harks back to Victorian days when a child (and many single men) didn't know how a woman was built from the waist downwards but I think that whoever introduced this prudish way of thinking has a lot to answer for.
I would not show them a porn film but I don't think I have seen anything on telly that I would not let them watch (we do not have sky so I can't speak for that). If they saw 2 women simulating sex with dildos and they asked me why, I would tell them, and I can guarantee they would not really give it another thought as it does not really apply to them at this age.
Sex is a fact of life and I don't know why we should hide it from our kids. I'm sure that the mystery we surround it with makes them even more eager to find out about it, children are very inquisitive by nature.
I think that being coy about sex and trying to pretend that it doesn't happen cheapens the whole issue and distorts a childs view of life, not to mention possibly causing issues for them later on, including (from what I have read), extreme sexual shyness and unplanned pregnancy.
I don't know whether this repressive attitude harks back to Victorian days when a child (and many single men) didn't know how a woman was built from the waist downwards but I think that whoever introduced this prudish way of thinking has a lot to answer for.
The fact that my post above has been edited and the word p**n, which I typed in full, has been replaced with stars, would seem to reinforce my view. Is Diynot trying to pretend to a potential reader that p**n does not exist. If so, why? Perhaps a moderator would like to answer?
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same thing happened when i put the p o r n word in.
nstreet--------Tony 6 may be wrong in what he thinks, but to make a joke of his veiw because of his height is a bit sad, just remember that nearly all of the SAS are under 5ft 8ins so get ready to run
nstreet--------Tony 6 may be wrong in what he thinks, but to make a joke of his veiw because of his height is a bit sad, just remember that nearly all of the SAS are under 5ft 8ins so get ready to run
petewood said:
When I say "gay" it generally means "rubbish", "not very good", for example "Your car is gay".
"Gay" can even be used as an exclamation, for example "GAAAAAAAY! ", is what you might shriek when approaching a red traffic light far too quickly and then finding that your brakes aren't working.
It is often prefixed by the word "totally", for instance "My house has just been repossessed, my wife has left me and beer has been made illegal. This week has been totally gay."
In the above contexts, "gay" is a synonym of "weak".
just to explain my last two posts, I tried it with the singular first, but it got starred out (and therefore didn't illustrate my point particularly well), so I edited it to include the plural and then they were both posted. Which seems a bit queer.......
Freddie said:nstreet--------Tony 6 may be wrong in what he thinks, but to make a joke of his veiw because of his height is a bit sad, just remember that nearly all of the SAS are under 5ft 8ins so get ready to run
How do you know he's short
I'm not making light of his view, everyone is entitled to their own opion. It's the way he repsonded. If you knew anyone who has a bad case of sbs you would know where i'm coming from. No pun intended
A friend of a friend is a sterotypical example of someone with sbs, we call him sbs man for short and Tony's reply immediately made me think of him.
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