The spark size and strength is caused by the energy present. Bigger or smaller switch doesn't change the energy present. No matter how fast you flick the switch, the arc operates at the speed of light. As soon as the switch breaks contact, the arc charge begins.
The faster and wider the gap becomes, the shorter the period of arcing. The arc persistance is also effected by the point in the voltage sine wave when the switch is operated and what type of load is being switched. Inductive and capacitive loads being the most difficult to switch, resistive ones the easier ones.