There needs to be give-and-take, and both sides must be reasonable.
A few years ago I lived in a 1st floor maisonette. A chap moved in nextdoor to me, and the place was a bit manky so needed a new bathroom, a new kitchen, and new windows.
When he went to explain the works to the lady downstairs, she told him that he better not dare to make any noise in case she was home from work, and when he asked "When would it be alright to make noise then?" she insisted that her comings and goings were none of his business and she wasn't telling him.
After several attempts, he gave up and had works commence. At 11am on a Tuesday (I was there!), she came out and started screaming abuse at the window fitters, abuse that would make a sailor turn red and steady himself on the furniture! She never worked past 8pm, so it wasn't like she'd done a night-shift and just nodded off either.
So, some people aren't reasonable.