You misunderstand the purpose of limiting the widths of openings in a wall, which is to maintain lateral stability.
The post at H will contribute nothing to lateral stability, so that openings F and I really need to be considered as one.
It's too early in the morning for me to do the maths, but I would guess that the combined width of all the three openings exceeds the maximum 2/3 proportion.
The fact that your SE says that the post is only taking 15% of its maximum load shows that he doesn't understand either.
The post at H will contribute nothing to lateral stability, so that openings F and I really need to be considered as one.
It's too early in the morning for me to do the maths, but I would guess that the combined width of all the three openings exceeds the maximum 2/3 proportion.
The fact that your SE says that the post is only taking 15% of its maximum load shows that he doesn't understand either.