So had the meeting today with the planners that sent the letter, and from what I can gather a ruling changed in June that means any work to put in a hard standing deeper than a railway sleeper classes as engineering. Even though our work was done over a year before this, we can be served an enforcement because it’s not over 4 years. And it seems the person complained because they don’t like how it looks and it means they can’t park as easily on our road! Other bigger and higher drives aren’t being prosecuted because they apparently got a letter from the council saying it was ok, which we didn’t know you could do or needed. So it looks like retrospective planning will be refused, appeal will be refused, a few hard saved thousands wasted and a rubbish front garden (because I will be putting no effort in to make it anymore than a pile of soil) is going to be the end result.
Thank you to everybody that offered help it was really appreciated. It now seems it is down to some men in a council office and some councillors to take away our drive and our savings (it will take value from our house) and see how far away from my house I will have to park and carry my child. Gutted.