How are the two bell boxes wired ? 2 cables to control panel or bell box to bell box ? If wired bell to bell you need to find out which has the two cables, look in loft ? Enter engineer programming , Go to bell box with two cables remove the strobe input keeping the two inputs still twisted together , does this stop the bellbox flashing ? If so now check the other bell box is it still flashing ? If so remove strobe input from rear bellbox, if it's still flashing leave the strobe input out and reconnect the front one ,