Using the calculator on the HomeSupply website I estimate my rads need to output about 7kW.
Without knowing the basis on which HomeSupply calculate the heat loss, I would be reluctant to trust their figures.
Using the whole house method recommended above this estimate is 9-12kW (I have a few single pane windows windows & one room with flat roof hence the uncertainty, although I think it's towards the low end as I do have cavity and loft insulation).
Presumably both figures assume cavity and loft insulation, but the 9kW assumes full double glazing and the 12kW assumes full single glazing.
As the whole house result includes 2kW for water heating, the actual CH requirement is 7-10kW (unless you have already deducted the 2kW).
I used both the rad calculators suggested and they indicate my current rads can output between 10-12kW.
So the current rads will be OK.
So I guess this means that a 19kW boiler is about right and a 26kW boiler would be oversized
If the calculator says the most you need is a 12kW boiler, then a 19kW boiler is nearly 60% oversized. The 13 or 16kW Vitodens 100-W Compact
would be more suitable.
The 100-W can modulate down to 9kW while the 100-W Compact can modulate down to 7.2kW. If you have weather compensation, the lower a boiler modulates the better.
The built in weather compensation of the 100-W is fairly crude and cannot be fine tuned. They also say:
If the system is connected to a traditional Y or S-plan system then it is recommended to time the hot water mode differently to central heating mode to make the best use of the weather compensated mode.
The reason for this is that the boiler needs to run at a high temperature for water heating, but the weather comp may require a low temp; and you cant have both at the same times. A decent system will do this automatically by using a diverter valve.
On the other hand the 19kW Vitodens 200-W will modulate down to 4.2kW and can have proper weather compensation with a diverter valve. The maximum output can also be reduced if necessary. Unfortunately this is a more expensive solution.
I know you have only mentioned Viessmann, but it might be worth your time looking at the Broag Remeha Avanta boilers. The smallest system boiler is 18kW, which can be reduced at the control panel, and it modulates down to 6kW. It can also be used with weather compensation controls.