having done well in excess of 500k miles over the last decade or so, i think the astonishing lack of awareness by drivers in their own little bubble is incredible.
-middle or outside lane hoggers
-last minute direction changes
-no signalling
-driving at 3/4 of the speed limit without any good reason (mainly due to geriatrics)
-tailgaters
-amber gamblers
-impatient undertakers from motorway middle lane
All of the above sins are usually commited by people who have absolutely no idea what they are doing to the rest of the road users.
I personally think a couple of hours motorway training, at least one hour in the dark and at least one hour in heavy rain should be made compulsory for any learner driver. (A snow lesson would be good, but not entirely practical)
However, to the OP, the break dabbers you refer to are telling you something. Your driving position, no matter what you think of your safe breaking zone, is causing them to be uncomfortable. This situation, no matter you view it will not improve their standard of driving!
I imagine that you are also one of those people, when following a long line of cars travelling at (lets say
)70mph in the outside lane decide to pressurise the last car in the line, since you are in a rush and think they should move out of your way. It amazes me that those people do not have the presence of mind to understand that it is the car at the front of the convoy (that could be a mile up front) that is causing the problem, not the car at the back. If there were 50 vehicles in that convoy, all patiently thinking "the guy at the front wants shooting!! arrgh!" would you get up the exhaust of all 50 just in order to get you home 3 minutes early?
I also imagine that when the car infront of you does not yield to your pressure tactics, you patience runs out and then you become an undertaker - sliding into the middle lane, screaming past as many cars in the outside lane as possible (lets say 10) until you come to the back of the next car in the middle lane, then swerve back into the outside lane, causing all 10 of the cars you have just undertaken to hit their brakes.
Maybe back off from them a bit, try indicating right whilst behind them to at least let them know that you wish to get by them.
Most people will say that speed kills. I personally think thats rubbish ( why are autobahns not lined with cemetaries?) impatience and lack of consideration is the killer!