Bit late to the party but wondering how you got on with this?
My situation is exactly the same and I've tried kerfing, soaking for a week and steaming the 19mm and 25mm battens. I could have basically wrote your exact post.
It seems impossible to get standard roof battens to curve that much without them snapping.
I'm using Marley plain tiles hopefully.
I'm going to do a full post on the process next weekend, with photos.
I used 25mm battens, better to buy fully graded, a bit more expensive though. I kerfed the battens at 35mm, at 12mm depth.
I then poured boiling water on them, which helped a little bit, then I bent them around the brick part of my bay window at ground level, holding them in place with concrete blocks.
Still, the bending part needs patience, go slowly. as soon as you hear the slightest crack, find out where it's failing. At that point, for the weak points, I used a curved template with G clamps, and glued a thin strip of wood support on the back of the batten, and clamped in the curved position.
I had also stripped the plasterboard on the inside of the bay, and if I'd thought a bit harder, I would have bent the battens in-situ and clamped to the uprights, as both sides of the uprights were open.
I also started pilot drilling the nail holes because I found that the kerfed wood would split out at the back when nailed.
I used Lumberjack polyurethane wood glue.
Even with all of that, I found that only half of the battens would bend without breaking somewhere.
you might try 13mm kerfs, and not sure if it's a good idea, but once curved you might glue thin strips into the kerfs to strengthen the wood. I'd be interested in other people's opinions on that in particular.
I'll post more if it comes to mind.
Also, get the batten ends close to the walls on either side, just makes it easier when a tile lug is right up to the edge of the batten, seems obvious, but it tripped me up a bit.