A lifetime of experience, so you know everything?
why would you want an oversized boiler that is continually switching on and off?
Why not get a billet correctly sized for your house?
Personally I don't think yours listen to anyone else's opinion but you're own.
LOL, if a boiler stays on constantly then it is undersized for the job as it cannot reach the temp asked for by the room stat. so increasing wear and tear on the system IE pump ,moving parts and in general boiler life. So increasing the expense due to maintenance and possible replacement due to early failure.
I do listen to everyone's opinion even the dull and ignorant for they to have their story. Then I disregard the crap and make a decision on what I believe is the best case. That is exactly why I'm so successful in life.
Optimum settings are sometimes indicated on boiler controls , placed there by manufactures. I have never seen one where the manufacturer has marked the optimum setting on the boiler stat at maximum, usually its around half way but they do vary.
The reason I posed the question was to see if there had been some new guidance regarding boiler sizing that I was unaware of , Or if the rep was bullshiting LOL
Thanks dcwkawell , Its not a combi , and what you say makes a lot of sense.