The problem often with many successful self-made, go getter types, is that they often lack in other areas. Particularly empathy. They find it very difficult to understand that many other people don't have the same mix of strengths and weaknesses that they have. This means they can't understand why others might not be as successful financially or career wise as they are. Because of this, the only reason they can come up with in their minds to explain this is that other people aren't trying hard enough. It makes sense to them, and it doesn't mean they are bad people. And then, of course, you have the Eton/Oxbridge super privileged type, but they are just tw@ts.