Yes seems to be that way but they are implementing the high temp PDHW another way through the connection on x20 which is obviously a fudge to get it to max fire - I just can't get past the whole things about the X21 connector mentioning OT - the manual mentioning OT - even an error when OT fails to connect but your specific boiler not having OT, seems that's purely down to the fact that there's none or very little configuration/software options available.And if I put cylinder demand box with it and corresponding wiring, I would be installing it in W plan configuration since the boiler doesn't support OT and hence no X plan, correct?
So you need to wire the 3 port MID as a diverter plum in as normal then implement the cylinder demand control box to ( I presume) bypass the temp limiter on X20 when in HW mode.
What type/make/model of HW cylinder is it? If it doesn't have an expansion vessel or relief valves, control group, etc then it sounds like a standard Open Vent HW cylinder - these are not usually fed by the cold mains and normally need a cold water storage cistern (CWSC) to gravity feed them, although that may all be different in the US.