Confucious say
Morality and Rules is the way - An American couple tell how their children enjoyed their school days in Chengdu and it's a an interesting read. A long read.
....in a speech at Peking University, President Xi described the process of educating young people (in core socialist values) as similar to
“fastening buttons on clothes”. The key, in Xi’s opinion, was to do it correctly from the start.
“If the first button is fastened wrong,” he said,
“the remaining buttons will be fastened wrong.”
Leaving "core socialist values aside", the metaphor rings true in establishing good habits as a foundation for learning. The Chinese have taken a zro-tolerance approach to using mobile phones in school and recommend parents limit their children's online time at home. A fine idea, it seems to me, when kids complain of being tired after spending too long online at night, or suffering mental stress. He goes on to write: Respect for education is fundamental to Chinese culture, and these values had survived all the nation’s changes and even the narrow-minded competitiveness of the
gaokao. Leslie and I also admired the teachers’ competence and the dignity with which they carried themselves. It was vastly different from many parts of the United States, where parents and students often disrespect their instructors...and the group dynamics were different from what I had observed among American girls of similar age. The Chengdu students didn’t form cliques or deliberately exclude others, and there was never any mean-girl drama. In part, this seemed to reflect the fact that Chinese girls of 10 or 11 typically don’t engage in the kind of preteen behaviour that is common in the US. And the cultural emphasis on the group means that Chinese children learn to compromise and accommodate. Despite the fact that most kids had no siblings, they didn’t behave like spoiled brats.
Chinese culture has many things the West could learn from, and seeing how their education system works is a good place to start.