Well here goes.
BTW, this is Particle Physics not Quantum Physics. The Latter deals with the subatomic level below that of Protons and Neutrons.
As Ban said, the atomic mass of an atom is a product of its Neutron/Proton mass, ie; the number of neutron and protons forming the nucleus. The Isotopes of a given element are decided by the number neutrons in the nucleus. The Atomic element is decided by the Proton Mass of the Nucleus.
Example:
Hydrogen has 1 Proton and 1 Electron
Deuterium has 1 Proton 1 Neutron and 1 Electron
Tritium has 1 Proton 2 Neutrons and 1 Electron
Helium has 2 Protons 2 Neutrons and 2 Electrons
Helium 3 has 2 Protons 3 Neutrons and 2 Electrons.
The Proton and the Neurton both have Mass, however the Neutron is the most massive particle making up an atom.
The Protons and Neutrons are bound together by The Strong Nuclear Force, this is the force that must be overcome to either create a Fission or Fusion reaction. The Strong Nuclear Force only operates at very short distances, typically less that the width of the nucleus of a given atom, however it works as all the Protons and Neutrons are close enough for it to operate. The force is strong enough to cause all the protons and Neutrons to move as one, they do not move independantly within the atom.
This force also has a weaker brother, the Weak Nuclear Force, this operates over longer distances and it is this force that binds Electrons to atomic nuclei.
An Atom will normally contain as many Electrons as it contains protons, arranged in orbits around the nucleus, but not like the planets of the solar system, more like a cloud of particles in stable orbits.
As the Electrons orbit further from the Nucleus the force acting upon them gets increasingly weaker. In metals and other conductive materials, the outer part of the cloud are bound so weakly to the nucleus that they can be easily knocked off their orbits, either into the atom or away from the atom. These electrons are called VALENCE Electrons, and it is their movement between atomic neuclei we observe as Electricity.
All atoms can have electrons stripped from their outer shell if they are bombarded by electrons, protons or other high energy sources, when this occurs the atom is said to be Ionised, if it has lost electrons, then it is Negativelt Ionised, if it has had extra Electrons forced upon it, it is Positively Ionised. Ionised particles can also be ionised further by the same process..
These Ionised atoms are controlable by magnetic fields, and they can be formed into clouds of Ionised gas called Hot or Cold Plasma.
Regarding the Actinide Series and other Radioactive elements, these are radioactive because they are unstable. Nature likes order and balance, but many Isotopes of many elements are not in balance, the forces in their heart are unbalanced. This causes neutrons, protons, high speed electrons or even Helium nuclei to be emitted from the core. As time passes the element slowly changes it's atomic weight and stabilises. The time it takes for 50% of a given mass of a Radioactive element to decay into a stable element is called it's Half-Life, this can range from nano-seconds to billions of human years.
For Reference:
Alpha Particle are Ionised Hydrogen Nuclei..a single proton.
Beta Particles are Electrons or Positrons ejected from the heart of the atom, usually as a by-product of the formation of Ionised Helium Nuclei during the radioactive decay of the nucleus.
X-Rays and Gamma rays are photonic in nature and will behave as a particle or a wave, there is a debate going on as to whether they have mass.
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