I'm sorry if this sounds rude but your track record says your far to trusting and dare I say misguided in how you see the world. Everyone is out to get their pound of flesh, I trust no one, i treat people fairly but will never give anyone money or the opportunity to take advantage.
The estate agency are chancers just like the other knobs you've mentioned and don't deserve your empathy, they've seen you coming and taking full advantage, unfortunately it sounds like your being a bit soft from this side of the screen.
They haven't told the landlord it's only £200 they have their own mark up on top of your cost, and they are earning a percentage off the landlord in management fees aswell.
Why would they estimate a price without talking to you and getting a quite from you first? They haven't got the foggiest idea sat there in their cheap Burton suits giving it the biggun..
You are probably a bit right about me being too trusting. I was thinking about it today, how really if someone not known asks for even £1 we instantly think bad of him.. like presume it's to feed a drug habit or something (as opposed to the good cause he asks for it for).. The reality is that these people ruin it for the genuine people who do need help.. because in some instances someone would need real help, yet no one would trust what he says because of the liars and scammers that came with the same story.
The takeaway owner that tried to steal my tools basically hired me to install a new shower above the takeaway. We agreed on a price for labour, £400. Then when I came to the job and was ordering the parts with him he turns around and says he thought I gave him the quote of £400 for parts and labour.. I was like ..err.. nope. No way. (The materials cost like £300 ish lol!)
He then agreed to £400 (again) for the labour ..but wanted me to also make the piping ready for a second shower that he wanted to be located in the room below the first shower he wanted me to install. long story short I ended up flipping out at him because he was telling more lies, I told him straight that he is a filthy lier and that Im getting my tools and canceling the job (which I hadn't started yet, just took measurements and order parts that he paid for after trying to get me to pay for them lol).
He then wouldn't let me get my tools! he like 6ft odd, I'm 5' 9.. I was fuming mad at him though when he tried to steal my tools, he was pushing me around to try and get me out of the shop, I refused and phoned the police, he picked up a wooden rolling pin and was threatening to hit me, I refused to stand down.. I left the shop in the end though and just waited outside for the police to come and they got my tools back for me. No point letting him drag me into a fight, especially when the police are on the way.. I used to do a bit of MMA and kickboxing.. so I was prepared though lol..
The guy who got £70,000 out of me and my friends was a guy we met through friends, its a long story, but he basically manages to trick us all into believing in an investment idea, and one of my friends who invested was a police officer, another was an accountancy firm owner, the other a property investor and the other an entrepreneur.. not the easiest bunch to scam, but the American guy came with a good idea and was known to my community and seemed like a wealthy millionaire that was legit.. still fighting him now to get our money back from him..
Yesterday a local guy in a shop said to me how he is a handy guy with his hands, but he's grown to learn that sometimes it's better to just keep cool and not get angry, despite the idiotic, irrational things being done to us.. I dunno, just something about the way he explained this touched a note in me, and made me think I need to just calm down with my temper when these fools try and abuse us.
They will get what they deserve in the end. That I am sure about!
But really, I am a bit tired, and maybe getting some wisdom in my ripe old age of 36 lol
Years ago I would have been plotting elaborate assassination attempts (which wouldn't end up getting carried out..) if people wronged me the way people have been wronging me these couple of years. But now - forget it. Life goes on, move on and learn. Its all a part of the test that (in my belief) our creator tests us with to make us stronger, better, purer and happier in the long run.