I agree, I feel sorry for those who work and although their work isn't a passion or anything, they keep on working because the thought of not working fills them with dread e.g. how will I fill my days, omg I'll be with my partner 24/7 etc etc. I suppose it's fair enough to keep on working if you want to for whatever reason, however the sooner I can retire the better, based on my world outlook and circumstances.
Thank you.
I do recall a guy at the council left at 64 and he'd been with the council for over 40 years. He lived alone as his wife had left him when he turned 50 and took half of everything inc what this manny got from his parent's estate when they decided which was about x hundreds of thousands. He drove a mundane car, nothig special but a new, small car then his GF cheated on him I saw him when he came back to work a few months later and told me
as he trusted me that he was fearful of leaving has kids grown up moved to other twons etc, no family to speak of locally and no work friends as they were younger than him and lived a distance vut he said he never looked back after a couple of weeks bought himself a flash car, went on hols to xxx made a GF that was at least 20 years younger than him and loving every minute of it. I said well done I'm happy for you. He thanked me for not puttig him down reflash, younger mans car and the younger woman as he was really happy.
A sibling of mine too retirnemt state retiremne at age of 61 she had lost her hubby years ago via accident and kids lived locally all comfortable - she dreaded leaving work but once she left she made new lady friends and joined clubs and took out the grandkids more and longer hols
Therefore, imo some are just scared see it as the end of the road but its not
Sadly, some can't afford to and often, not always but from what I have seen it is their fauly for not preparing to retire. Those that live in social housing dont have to worry about the CH sytem brking down roof leaking fences falling so its easier for them at times as most epople i know all have their own home and worry about income
I still do not understand those that can leave wont but may fear their other half may leave and I've seen it happen. A bloke took early retirment at 55 a few years later his wife left aged 50+ and they argued and argued and split up - not sure if they had a bit on the side or it was a genuine case of getting on each others nerves. Me and my OH argue a lot more since leaving work but we get by.