I could punch myself in the effing head! So, I fessed up, told her I’d got her present but could have got it nearly fifty quid cheaper. "Fifty quid"? She screeched, "You shouldn’t have even spent fifty quid on me". * Constant source of rows between us - she always wants to spend to a set budget for a given item, I want to just buy what I like and sod the cost. Anyway, I showed her it, she loved it, I showed her the one online and straight away she said "That's not the same one". Whaattt? Yep, wasn’t the same one. Found the one I bought and it wasn’t in sale and wasn’t even in stock. I felt better but again, surprise ruined! She said wrap it up, put it away and give it to me on the day and don’t even think of buying anything else.