D & J, I think we are actually arguing the same thing, not opposing!
My current job is in management at a global chain of 4* hotels. If I were to arrange, without asking, for my lover and a couple of friends to stay for a week, free of charge, I would expect to be fired if it ever came out. Abuse of priveleges.
Of course, the level I'm at means that I could pull stunts like this week in and week out. The hotel isn't full, who would be to know if I had 20 mates living it up every night?
But I know where my bread's buttered. I earn a good salary so I don't take the p *ss and abuse my position. I just think that sometimes, goverrnment officials don't see this...