I don’t. I moved out 34 years ago. I’m not speaking for myself. Even so, it’s a pretty stupid thing to say - lots of people have absolutely no choice where they live whether it be for work, family or financial reasons.
I know you were posting about a friend / acquaintance: I can read.
And, it is not a stupid thing to say:
- living in a place where "you" (for ease of typing) need a car - coz things are too far to walk to, and you won't use public transport
- but parking and driving the thing is a royal ballock-ache, and costly too
"Absolutely no choice" is cr@p, most of the time: they just won't make the changes necessary, then carp about it constantly afterwards, like some sort of martyr or hero.