Okay, I’ve read this late in the thread but in case no one has brought it up yet...
I too could not have cared less about politics and politicians TBH. That was until it, someone, some Party known as The Tories, f-ucke-d my life up in the mid/late 80’s!
I was a hard-working divorced father who had an amicable arrangement with my ex wife. I paid her each and every week a sum which we both agreed was fair; I was up-front and honest.
It was a tacit agreement which was generous and far more, (zero), than she ever got from the father of her second daughter from another man/alpha male.
But she harboured what I can only call a malevolent streak and the day the CSA was CONceived she told them about me. She didn’t/couldn’t tell them about the other guy because A) He used to slap her about and B) He was unemployed but working on the side and doing very well thank you...
So, when it was first formed I hailed this as a great move by the Tories because they were going to get and target “errant fathers” right?
Wrong!!! Some fathers commited suicide; it was
that bad, wrong, unfair and corrupt!
Being up front and honest, they found me in a heartbeat – and took me to the cleaners!
My ex was getting, at the time, £30 per week in benefits for BOTH children. (Remember only one was mine – allegedly). But I thought of her as mine and lavished her with the love, care and devotion you would expect from any proud dad.
To add insult to injury, the Cons purported to be the Party “working for and supporting the family”. (Paraphrased from memory).
This story is too long, and painful, (and boring for those whom were not affected), to go into detail about. But I vowed I’d never vote Conservative again after that – and I haven’t!
At the time, if someone stuck a bullet in Thatcher's head I would have rejoiced! It was 'under her watch' that my life was turned completely upside-down and set me on a course which was to affect me and my side of the family for the rest of my life; such is the power of Politics!
The moral of this story? When a party completely f-uck-s up your life; don’t expect to win them back – ever!
People vote, or not, on what personally affects them; it’s human nature. Dale Carnegie put it well when he said
“a man cares more about his cold than a famine which kills a thousand in China”.
To state the obvious that’s not, in any way, a judgement on the good Chinese people or
any race of course. The point he made was simply that what affects you personally is what is uppermost in your mind and what personally affects YOU and the people you love. And so affects our... bias...
One of my dearest friends, by stark contrast, did very well out of Thatcher, thank you very much.
So it’s all about how it personally affects you; not so much wrong or right but how
you fair. My plight, likely as not, will seem like a big nothing to you all here - just as yours may appear to me.
Political statement: The shame of it, I think, is that the Cons seem to get an idea about something which
is wrong, wasteful, inefficient and in genuine need of change, and then completely f-cu-k it up! And history is repeating itself once again sadly, with the NHS...
Labour and Conservative are like "a choice between Leprosy and Syphilis", to lend from another quote....