if lady luck decided to shower me with wealth,i would think extremly hard before i told anyone.
reason being even close family would automatically assume you would help them out.
question exactly how much would make them happy,because im pretty sure after they have given it a lot of thought,they would then say you were tight for only giving them so much?
your life will change in a blink of an eye,these peeps who stand there and say 'IT WONT CHANGE US' yer yes it will,they will never have to worry about bills again,so they are less stressed,havnt got to work/chase contracts or like a lot on here worry about being under cut by others or ripped off by customers.
now the question is how do you explain it when all and sundry see you move into a better house or have a lovely car or start taking holidays that in the past you have never been able to afford.or even give up work.
like us all who decide to do the lottery,you want to win the big one.i hope 1 day it will be me
and i hope i have the right attitude and maturity to deal with it in a sensible manner.
AND HOW ON EARTH DID THIS THREAD END UP BEING ABOUT SOMETHING THAT IS A PERSONNEL PREFERENCE.