You were happy to bend over for oil companies before were were forced into EVs. You still are. Everything you buy has come to you thanks to oil cos and diesel. You're funding it.
Least when I go to a petrol station I know I will leave 10 mins later with a full tank and range of 650 to 700 miles. I can fill up under that nice big canopy that keeps me bone dry.
Unlike you, standing in the p!$$ing rain, trying to find the right plug, then trying to find the right app, hoping the app and charger are both working. Or there are some chargers available. Then if you're lucky you get to sit in a car park on a retail park for an hour like a mug, playing on your phone and eating Greggs sausage rolls and several cups of coffee to help relieve the monumental boredom that is EV ownership.
I can see how, to someone who didn't know their ar5e from their elbow, selecting the "right" plug from, (at most), a choice of two totally differently shaped (and coloured) plugs, might seem like a daunting prospect, but don't worry. Before you are finally forced, kicking and screaming, into your first EV, help is at hand. Practice with one of these, and you'll soon get the hang of it...
But it does seem that on average, about 150,000 ICE drivers each year, can't seem to even manage that! I wonder how many incidents of EV misfueling we get each year...?
Not really interested in "apps" unless they come with a hefty financial incentive - just tap my ordinary contactless card on the reader and sit back in my nice warm car....
But unlike you, I actually have real life, lived experience of refueling both sorts of vehicle...