I think the confusion has probably arisen because you appear to be addressing a totally different question from the one being discussed.Back into the battery. .... Yes - it is not a realistic model, but theoretically you accelerate a mass to x m/s, and then you accelerate it to 0 m/s. The mass is irrelevant.
You appear to be talking about the overall 'energy balance' when a car accelerates (due to the electric motor) and then decelerates (due to regenerative braking) back to the initial (pre-acceleration) speed (be that zero or whatever). As I think you are implying, if the car were in a vacuum, there was no friction or other losses and everything was '100% efficient' (such that it would require no energy to keep the car travelling at constant speed) then, with regenerative braking, there would be no net usage of energy - the amount used to accelerate the vehicle would be entirely recovered during the deceleration - and that would, indeed, remain true regardless of the mass of the vehicle.
However, that's not what we are discussing. We are simply looking at the difference between having, and not having, regenerative braking when one reduces the vehicle's speed (by regenerative or conventional braking, respectively). DaveHerns simply asked how much energy would be recovered by regenerative braking if a cars speed was reduced from 30mph (presumably to zero), and how far the car could drive with that recovered energy. That is simply a question of converting the car's kinetic energy when travelling at 30mph into electrical energy, and that amount of energy obviously is dependent on (in fact, proportional to) the mass of the vehicle.
If the vehicle is heavier, such that more energy is recovered during braking from a certain speed, it is indeed true that more energy would have been expended in accelerating the car to its speed in the first place - but that is not what we have been discussing.
No reason at all - but the rate of creating or recovering the kinetic energy is not something we have been discussing - we've only been discussing the total amount of energy recovered during regenerative braking, regardless of what time interval that recovery occurs over.However: We do not think it strange, or against the laws of physics, if an EV can be fast charged in less time than it can be fast discharged, i.e. used. So I don't see why, per se, a car could not recover kinetic energy at a faster rate than it creates it.
Kind Regards, John