Not necessarily. Don't forget that these days power flows can reversed in the local networks due to embedded generation (e.g. solar PV). So the voltage at the end of a line can be higher than at the transformer.Interesting. The dips to 230V are not surprising if you're that far from the transformer, but if you often get 253V athat far from the transformer, one would expect those close to the transformer to be getting well over 253V (the theoretical 'maximum')minimises I2R
The DNO likes to keep the voltage up as it minimises I2R losses. Then embedded generation comes along and reduces or reverses voltage drops.
The heaters are only used at switch on - at least with switch start & magnetic ballast, not sure what electronic ballasts do.Fluorescents have a similar life issue to do with the heater filaments at the ends. (Any resistive heating element is going to have reduced lifetime by running hotter due to higher input voltages).
Only for those with active electronics. Many only have passive electronics (rectifier & and a cap to drop the voltage) - these will be very sensitive to voltage. I have some LED lights in the garden - 80off 2W lights is "a bit much" so I run them off about 55V with a transformer.Modern leds should be highly tolerant of voltage changes